7 habits of highly effective people

Part Three: 7 Habits of Highly Effective People – As Applied to Actors

Thanks for hanging with us! We are here with blog 3 from our mini series on the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People! If you didn’t see the first two yet– be sure to check out those earlier posts! So let’s explore habit 3!

3. Put First Things First.

Most people these days have HUGE to-do lists. It can feel paralyzing, especially to creatives! Not all actions that end up on our “to-dos” actually move us closer to our success. Identifying the KEY actions that you need to focus on first is VITAL to finding success in ANY industry.

So how do you differentiate your tasks? How do you set-up your day to have success here? You need to learn the word “no” and when to use it.

There are important and non-important tasks and urgent and non-urgent tasks. You need to structure your day to include enough time working on things that aren’t urgent but ARE important. If you don’t set aside time for those tasks, it is easy to get caught in the worldwind of smaller things that keep you busy but don’t move you towards your goals. To do this, you need to be constantly thinking about what YOU need to do, what you can DELEGATE, what you can AUTOMATE and what you can say NO to. With that in mind, you need to schedule your week to get everything accomplished. Don’t expect to FIND the time. Put the time in the calendar. If you never work on the big picture, you can’t ever expect to achieve your big dreams. If that means saying no or asking someone else to do it– you need to! Otherwise, you are just coasting through reacting to things instead of taking action towards your goals.

So here are a few tips for you for point number 3!

  • Create a weekly schedule that outlines your daily activities. Block out time for submitting for auditions and doing industry research. Create your weekly schedule on Sunday night or Monday morning and adhere to it as closely as you can. The more you practice your scheduling, the easier it will be to set aside the proper amount of time to get your tasks done.
  • Do your MOST IMPORTANT WORK FIRST. Tackle the self-tapes, the audition submissions and your important relationship building tasks before you hop on the family email string, do the load of laundry or open social media. You will feel more control over your day if you can make time to do this on a regular basis.
  • Notice what you are doing that is getting you positive results in your life. Prioritize those things!
  • Ask yourself these questions when scheduling your tasks: 1) Is it important? 2) Do I need to do this now? 3) Can someone else do this? 4) Can I automate this for the future? 5) Does this move me closer to my dreams? 6) Is the outcome of this action important to my career and/or personal goals?
  • TIME BLOCKING! I’m a BIG fan of this method! Sometimes when we give ourselves mini deadlines we move faster. If you have all day to do an item, you’ll take all day. If you give yourself a timeline, you’ll work to do it within that time frame. Tighten your deadlines on individual tasks and watch how it changes your productivity.

Feel free to comment below on any action steps these principles inspire for you and we will get busy prepping habit #4!

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Colleen Finnegan Kahl is an accomplished Theatre Arts Educator, author of this article, and President of Actors Connection. Colleen is an expert helping aspiring actors prepare for casting calls, find an agent, and optimize their acting training for theater and television.


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7 habits of highly effective people

Part Two: 7 Habits of Highly Effective People – As Applied to Actors

Welcome back to our blog mini series on the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People! We are breaking down the 7 tips that Stephen Covey shares in his book (great read! I can definitely recommend it) but we are gearing our tips below to ACTORS looking to be more EFFECTIVE in their acting careers!

So onward to habit # 2.

2. BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND.

For the baseball fans in the house– let’s start with a Yogi Berra quote– “If you don’t know where you are going, you’ll end up someplace else.”

You need to be thinking today about your ultimate destination in your career. What do you want to achieve? What do you want your life to look like? Who are you as a successful actor? What work are you doing? Who are you doing it with? What types of characters are you playing? How much money do you make? Where do you live?

Feel a little day-dreamy? Good! You can’t build your best vision of the future if you spent no time thinking about it and designing it!

If you don’t have an answer to all those questions above, it truly is WORTH taking the time to explore your heart on them. And don’t limit yourself to your career! Think about your relationships, hobbies, lifestyle and how life feels living in your chosen path. You can’t possibly move closer to the YOU that you want to be if you don’t have a clear picture of it!

So here are a few tips for you for point number 2!

Spend 5 minutes each morning thinking about the career you want to have. Set an alarm, close your eyes, and think about the life you want to be living for at least 5 whole uninterrupted minutes. Focus on the 5 senses and your emotions and think about everything in detail. You should be smiling while you do this! It should feel good or you are doing it wrong!

Create a vision board for your life. Put pictures that represent your career, lifestyle, income and relationships on it. Get specific and cover a whole poster board with representations of your future.

Set goals by working backward. Once you know your ultimate goals, it is easier to work back from there to identify the remaining milestones that need to get you there. Write that top goal and think “what would I need right before this?” and then write that goal down. Then ask the question before that goal and so on. Doing this will help you build your own personal road map.

Pave your brain for success. Envision how you will handle hurdles. They will happen and your reaction is important. Take time to really explore how you can overcome challenges with grace and grit.

One day, when you are gone and the Oscars want to celebrate your life–what do you want them to say about you and your career? What do you want family and friends to remember about you? Weave those answers into your life now!

Habit #3 is en route in a future blog post! Feel free to comment below on any action steps these principles inspire for you!

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Colleen Finnegan Kahl is an accomplished Theatre Arts Educator, author of this article, and President of Actors Connection. Colleen is an expert helping aspiring actors prepare for casting calls, find an agent, and optimize their acting training for theater and television.


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